Sunday, April 27, 2014

GREAT ....... ARE HARD TO FIND , DIFFICULT TO LEAVE , IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET

"GREAT ....... ARE HARD TO FIND , DIFFICULT TO LEAVE , IMPOSSIBLE TO FORGET "

So this article will be about this missing word !
I'll be talking about a person...a person that everyone thinks he has ! 
That person you always fight with...yet you still rely on ! That rare one who is always interested in you and never get bored of talking to you ....The one who means to you everything ...who defines your life...who is worth dying for !!!
That person you wish you'll never be separated from , no matter what happens..although you might be living miles away ... but you are still in contact!!
Well , this person is called a " FRIEND"
   so in this article , i'll be talking about FRIENDSHIP!

                                        F-----> family..fight...faith !
                                        R----->rare
                                        I------> interesting !
                                        E----->everything !
                                        N----->never!
                                        D-----> daymaker...diary !
                                        S----->secret keeper!
                                        H----->happiness's source!
                                        I------>inseparable!
                                        P------>PERFECT !!!
FRiENDSHIP?? oh god, i started to seriously hate this word ! let us be realistic for a moment !
i see ..listen...read this word everywhere ! but do people really mean it? do they even know it's meaning?
HAHAHAHA ...most of you use it while writing a description of a picture on facebook..instagram ... or whatever !!
BUT are you sure that the one who is standing next to you smiling..or silly facing in this picture , will be the same one to stand next to you when you are in trouble or when you need to talk ! will she/he be the one who will support you ?
I've only seen perfect friendships in movies... so why PRETEND its okay??
COME ON ! WAKE UP! LOOK AROUND YOU ! AND SEARCH FOR THE REAL ONE ...THE ONE WHO IS COMPATIBLE WITH YOU! 
you know ,,, friendship is like a phone charger ! you cant enter a wrong charger in a phone ! they have to be compatible !!<3
friendship is rare these days not because friends dont exist ...but because they choose the wrong buddy !
you dont get a friend not to feel lonely or bored ...you get one because you know you need him and he needs you too!
The word FRIENDS is really hard to define !
A friend is the person you understand through his eyes ...you need no words to communicate ....
a friend is someone who knows the song in your heart , and can sing it back to you when you forget the lyrics !
Its the one you feel comfortable with ...you can talk with ...tell him your problems without planning how to talk ... you just LET IT OUT !!
its the one you can be yourself with without being intimidated! 
its the one who really cares about you without wanting anything in return...the one you share your life with...you have your own jokes..your own words that nobody gets but both of you....you have your own life....your own world! 
its your other half !! Its YOU !!
A friend is your mother..your daughter...your sister..your brother..your lover..your enemy...your coach !! He is your EVERYTHING !
While am writing now ..i discovered that FRIENDSHIP has no definition !!
but every couple or every group of friends make their own definition through their experiences...memories...conversations...jokes!
SO IF YOU ARENT SURE ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS ...JUST GO TALK WITH THEM ...DISCOVER THEM...TELL THEM THE MEANING OF A REAL FRIENDSHIP...AND IF THEY ARENT COMPATIBLE WITH YOU ! I THINK ITS TIME TO SEARCH FOR A REAL ONE ...STOP PRETENDING THAT YOU ARE OKAY ...TRAVEL AROUND THE WORLD ..IF YOU CANT ....CHAT WITH DIFFERENT PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT PLACES...MAYBE YOU WILL FIND THE ONE SOMEWHERE !
"I'D RATHER DIE SEARCHING FOR A REAL FRIEND THAN LIVE SURROUNDED BY PEOPLE AND FEELING LONELY"
#DONIA

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